@Timmmmmmy and I have been friends for a long time, ever since our moms were pregnant with us. Over the years, we have been a part of each other’s lives at various points. Here’s us during 8th grade formal, for instance:
Why yes, that tall guy was an 8th grader. No joke.
What could possibly ever come between us? Must be something really serious, right? Perhaps a girl? Well, before I tell you more about that, let me briefly tell you what brought this up.
Yesterday evening, I was chatting with my mom about what I’ll be doing for Thanksgiving. I told her I will most likely spend it at Timmy’s with his family since they normally celebrate the holiday whereas my family does not. Hearing this, my mom remembered that I didn’t spend Thanksgiving at their place last year like I normally do. Apparently, this was so unusual that Timmy’s mom called my mom worrying that Timmy and I were fighting.
Hearing that made me laugh, mostly because it reminded me of the only time Timmy and I got into anything resembling a real fight. I personally thought it was over the dumbest thing, but Timmy, to this day, still tries to justify his actions. Perhaps you guys can be the judges and settle this once and for all for us!
This incident took place during sophomore year of high school while we were eating at the cafeteria with friends. We both went to different lines to get food. I got my food first, so I went back and sat down at our table. Timmy later came by and looked upset. He sat off to the side away from me, which was confusing. I tried to talk to him to see what was up, but he ignored me.
Still unsure as to what was bothering him, I tried talking to Timmy the next day only to once again receive the silent treatment. I didn’t find out what was the matter until after I heard it through a mutual friend. Apparently, the reason why he was mad was because I took his seat at lunch, something that I honestly did not realize I did.
Do you know how long Timmy continued to hold that grudge against me? A few days? A week? A month? Nope. He ended up not speaking to me for a whole frickin’ school year! So awkward. Obviously we have made up since then, but we still argue in jest about who was more wrong in this situation.
Now, let me ask you this: If you were in Timmy’s shoes, would you have handled this situation any differently? How long would you be mad at someone for taking your seat at a cafeteria? Have you ever gotten into an unnecessary fight over something trivial? Do you think Timmy should let me slap him for Slapsgiving?
I know you want to say yes!
UPDATE: Here is Timmy’s version of the event. Sounds plausible, but even he admits the year long silent treatment was too extreme…so I believe I win =)
2ND UPDATE: Here is @Cakalusa ‘s version of us. Okay, he wins.
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