It was so beautiful outside this past weekend. My little brother and I decided to take advantage of the good weather by playing tennis at the local courts. Not sure about him, but I was looking forward to this since we haven’t play tennis with each other in a while. While we were rallying around, having a pleasant time, I noticed a car with its windows down drive by our court. There had been other cars driving by, but this one was about to stand out. Within the time it took for the car to drive by, the person in the passenger seat had the audacity to scream out “TENNIS SUCKS YOU MOTHERF**KERS!!! F**K YOU!! YOU SUCK!!!!!! HAHAHAHA….!!!!”
So many thoughts ran through my head the moment after this happened. It was as if the rational side of me stepped down while the protective side came in. Seriously?? How DARE this jerk try to put us down and make us feel bad for doing something we enjoy? How DARE he blatantly judge someone he doesn’t even know? Say all that to me, but to yell that out at my little brother too? What if there were families here? He’s lucky I didn’t beam a ball at his car! Hmm, maybe it’s not too late to track that immature bastard down…
Good thing those emotional impulses left my head almost as soon as they came in. I snapped out of it and checked to see if those stranger’s words affected my brother. Unfortunately, his mood did change. We rallied in silence for a few minutes. From an outsider’s point of view it probably looked like we were just extremely focused, but we both knew otherwise. Finally, as we went to pick up our balls, my brother broke the silence.
“Wow, what was that? That was weird…” he started off. Before he could comment any further, I immediately said, “Yeah, just forget about it. It doesn’t even matter.”
“Didn’t that make you mad?” he further asked me.
Before I replied, I had to think about his question for a bit. When I was done, I answered, “Look, that was just some random guy who doesn’t even know us, so he obviously isn’t in any position to really judge what we do or who we are. If you think about it, what he did was a shameless, cowardly, and ignorant act that speaks more about him than us. Did it make me mad? Yeah it did, but only for a brief moment. Once you realize how little value his words really has, it becomes easier not to take what he said to heart. We know what’s true much better than he does, so lets just continue on. Alright, ready to practice serves?”
My brother, seemingly satisfied with my reply, nodded and went over to the other side of the net. We proceeded to enjoy the rest of our tennis time, putting that awkward incident behind us. At least for that day, we weren’t going to let some random stranger’s malicious comments bring us down.
I’m pretty sure that won’t be the last time either one of us will receive an undeserved cheap shot from someone. Insults can hurt, but they will only hurt as much as we allow them to. As long as we remember this, we’ll hopefully be prepare to handle any future incidents that come our way.
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