March 9, 2011
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Random Encounter with an Unknown Follower
During my birthday last week (thanks again everyone for your well wishes!), I got a lot of random messages from people that were apparently long time readers of my blog but have stayed under the radar until now. There was one Xangan in particular (who will remain anonymous) that stood out. She sent a message that read “URGENT: interview from UMD” (FYI, UMD is a near by college that I often visit). Intriguing.
She turned out to be a journalism major at the school who has been following my blog for some time but just recently subscribed. She had a short assignment due in 14 hours for a class where she had to write up an article for a fictional magazine. She decided to write about how in a world where Facebook, Tumblr and Twitter are the main leaders of the social networking world, Xanga is still thriving, partially through the Xanga meets other Xangans and I have put together.
I thought it was really cool and flattering that she thought about me for her assignment, so I had no problems with this last minute request. After I answered some questions from her, she ended up writing this article (I added some appropriate links):
On April 16, more than 50 individuals plan to meet up at the Lincoln Center in New York City. Some know one another and others do not, but they all have one thing in common: Xanga.
Popular during the early 2000’s, the blogging and social networking website is still thriving despite Facebook and Twitter being all the rage now with over 600 and 190 million users, respectively.
Alex Chan aka Roadlesstaken, 25, has been planning meet ups since he attended one held in D.C. in 2009. Meet ups opened up a new form of social networking for the graduate student.
“I think people just like the idea of meeting up with people they’ve gotten to know for a while online,” said Chan, who has been a Xanga user, or Xangan, since 2003.
Chan first started to plan meet ups in California due to its overwhelming population of Xangans, but decided to plan closer to home on the East coast. Last July, Chan hosted the largest meet up in New York City where over 50 Xangans attended. The meet up attracted people from Maryland, New Jersey, Virginia, California, Massachusetts, and even, Canada.
Typical meet ups consist of sightseeing, entertainment and food. Some meet ups end with an after party.
After meet ups, Chan and other Xangans blog about their experiences and share photos on their Xangas.
“What would have happened had I not befriended so many people online to the point where I viewed them as close, if not more so, than my current in real life friends? What would have happened had I chickened out of meeting these online people in real life?” Chan blogged after a California meet up last August.
Chan recalls Xanga being described as a “gated community” where the network is small, but close-knit.
“From the outside, you probably wouldn’t know all that’s happening in the Xanga world, but once you’re in and connected, you feel everyone is separated by less than six degrees,” said Chan.
Over the years, Xanga has formed lasting relationships for Chan and other Xangans, connecting the West to the East, North to the South. Blogging may be the main aspect of Xanga, but meet ups take the blogging experience up a notch.
“I’ve personally strengthen and made a lot of true friendships over the past few years thanks to meet ups,” said Chan.I say that was pretty good! She mentioned she probably could get it published somewhere if we wanted to pursue that. Hey, why not?I’m glad this long time follower got in touch with me and is no longer unknown. Hopefully we will meet up sometime soon. I wonder who else is out there reading my stuff? Is it you? (Yeah, I’m looking at you!)

Comments (95)
ThAt’S SOoOoo ranDom. Just LYke THese PRopz
Hmm she should say we are the eharmony version of WordPress.
you are 25? you look younger than that you know lol
yeah what cakalusa said… haha randommm
nice to know that someone used you as her assignment topic hehe. be nice to see it published! i looked up xanga on Wikipedia and omg
That is nice… I hope it can..
A well written article, and I think she accurately pinpointed the why xanga is still around. Sure I’m not too well known site wise , but I still feel like I’m part of the community..
I’m reading bwahahhaa. Maybe you’ll bump into me one day if you walk around England
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She deserves an A+.
@CaKaLusa - tHx FoR sHowErInG mY pAgE wItH lUv ~~*~~~
@sonychak - Are you saying that people have had love connections through Xanga?? Preposterous!
@nomilktoday - Funny you said that. Did you read my last post? I wrote about how people are always confused about my age.
@Lordv16 - Yup, I think gated community really is a good description of us. We’re small, but we interact quite often.
@pika_whoosh - I’ll bump into you at Wimbledon, how about that?
@saintvi - I agree!
She did a good job. Hope she gets it published somewhere.
@Roadlesstaken - you gonna be here at wimbledon?
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW ALEX is loved all across Xanga
wow that’s pretty cool! and Xanga > all other social networks.
seriously man, you’re like the xanga ambassador. i just hope you don’t misuse your power and start buying long flowy robes…or try to assemble a huge confederation of lesser blogging sites and call yourself the king of kings. that’d be scary. lol.
She did a great job! Wow! That is so cool!
HUGS!
Cool! she did a good job. makes me even happier to be apart of the community
Love the pokemon reference in the beginning. Hehehehe but yeah, you are an ambassador for xanga. Though I have to say facebook is really for people you already know in real life..
@ThePrince - LOL. werD!
This is really cool. Congrats!!
She should interview Dan next. He’s like the featured question King of Xanga. I think your the prince of everyday. Since you write about your everyday life.
Yes I’m cheesy
@squeakysoul - Me too, just gotta figure out with publication would make sense haha. Any ideas?
@pika_whoosh - eventually =( . Probably next year.
@getyourownsandwich - I wouldn’t say ALL across Xanga haha
@HeLLo_Bianca - in some ways. I gotta admit though other social networks have some strong appeals.
@ThePrince - Oooo, do you know of some lesser blog sites I can command and conquer?
@adamswomanlost - Pleasant surprise for sure!
@LillyVRose - That’s good to hear =)
@Hinase - Yeah, that’s how I used FB initially. I’ve let it slide a little with some Xangans though. I still want to have at least some prior knowledge of a person before I add/accept someone.
@sleeping_on_the_edgeoftheworld - The prince of everyday. I gotta say that’s a new one haha. Thanks!
@Roadlesstaken - blogger. it’s like a vacuum in there.
@Roadlesstaken - same here
LOL @ pokemon pic
Hahaha. Of course you’re famous, no question about that!
That’s so awesome!
This is awesome! That should be a real magazine article!!
It’s me :X
But seriously, that’s awesome! YAY YOU
You are a Xanga super star, Alex.
lol in slightly unrelated news, i reckon there must be plenty of unknown girls who have a crush on this “chan” guy =P
just noticed that wasn’t on ur misinformation post lol
@nepenthium - Last minute addition!
@throughsamseyes - The furthest I’ll go is to say I’m a well known Xangan, that’s it!
@TheInappropriateSkirt - I hope we can get it published somewhere!
@Vox91 - I’ll ask her to see if we can make that happen =)
@stephx4 - Yay Xanga!
@stevew918 - Oh geeeez. Haha, thank you?
@charlesworth - Haha what wasn’t on that post, these supposedly unknown fan girls?
It’s ike Beatlemania all over again!!!
That’s sweet, Alex! Really kind of freaky, but cool nonetheless! What makes it cooler is that you’re so down to earth about it! You don’t get a big head like others.
And yes, I’m reading your stuff… Have been for some time. I like that your blog is actually a blog. My blog is more like my diary. Haha.
Yes, it IS me, I admit it, I’ve read you once or twice.
props man! woohoo alex!
I’ve been following you since I saw your plug. Before then, I didn’t even know you existed. =P
Yes, I admit to being your online stalker :$
Your following is so big, you could just write a post that said “Nothing” and get 50 responses.
Nice article. She did a good job.
Happy birthday Alex. Sorry I missed it.
Yes I’m reading! So don’t stop writing. Or I should say blogging.
And I know I’m damn freaking late but happy belated birthday!
yes me! but u r seeing me april 16!
@darkoozeripple - Haha maybe when I start getting paparazzis we can say that
@oOo_itsJuJu - Hey, diaries are cool too! Oh, I do have a big head, physically. Most hats/glasses won’t fit me =(
@randaness - gasp, twice?! STALKER
@wyrdkismet - =D
@fLiPgUy31O - Best plug purchase ever
@eatandrant - I can live with that =)
@mycontinuity - I guess the question is do I feel the need to do that? Nahhh
@bmojsilo - Thanks, she has been reading the comments and appreciates all the nice feedback!
@ikaika53562 - No worries, thanks!
@Candilicious_Meanie - late is cool haha. Thanks!
@Prim_Prim4488 - Weee! I’ll also be in NY March 25-27 if you’re available then. Are you?
congrats!!
thats amazingg
WHOOO! How exciting you were influencing without knowing it. @~~}Lishy{~~@
@Roadlesstaken - D:
How wonderful! This is the kind of advertising Xanga could use, indeed. Only because it’s so true. And she definitely picked well. =D
That’s really awesome ^-^
I like the Pokemon pic btw. x]
@DragonAlica - It’s a cool feeling =)
@suuperstar - Isn’t it??
@nov_way - Yeah, it’s been too long since Xanga has been in any social news. Must change that!
@HisKeiki - Thanks, I’m so glad I thought of that at the last minute haha
You’re getting more famous each and everyday!!!
Make me famous too!!!!
jk!!!!!
I laughed at this line
Popular during the early 2000’s
It sounds so long ago
woahh ~ that’s crazy!! I want to go to a meet-up someday..
@cognney - Ha! I wish. I can try to make our famous though. What would you like to be known for?
@ugotafriend - It was! We’re getting old!
@babixling - Yeah, make it happen! Don’t let money/time/distances be obstacles!
@Roadlesstaken - My uber facial expressions! Since according to you, I’m so animated!
You are like the Goodwill ambassador of Xanga!
@Roadlesstaken - Haha, you just like reading girls’ diaries. And I have that same problem! It really sucks, especially during the summertime. =/
@oOo_itsJuJu - Hey, I read guys too! haha
@buddly47 - I guess I can’t mind being called that!
@cognney - You indeed are. Makes me laugh just picturing you make your many faces!
@Roadlesstaken - Lol, I’ve often wondered what guys wrote about in their diary… And if it’s normal for a guy to have a diary
@oOo_itsJuJu - Sure, guys are allowed to have thoughts too you know!
@Roadlesstaken - Lol, I know! But to have a full-blown diary… Idk. Are you speaking from experience? Lol.
That’s pretty awesome.
Small world
Interesting =). Have fun in Canada. I have family over there, but I’ve never been there.
@TheCheshireGrins - Very!
@mindfulreflections - what part of Canada?
@Roadlesstaken - Montreal.
haha always nice to read your blogs man.
and congrats! you do speak the truth about xanga .. sure is close knit. lol
have a nice spring break alex!
Pretty sweet! ^_^
@H0Eass - Thanks, my spring break isn’t here yet but I wish you a good one!
I guess I need to subscribe now.. =)
@windblown85 - Sure, I don’t mind!
Happy belated bday btw.
@windblown85 - thanks!
I do stumble across your page every now and then. And the article is great.
@theericbailey - You’re always welcomed over here
What pokemon will you choose!? Haha, well I’ve told you Alex, you’re the reason why I’m still on Xanga. I actually hate the infrastructure here, but it’s the ppl that keep me around.
@AzureRecollections - Ahhh so much pressure!
Thats great! what a nice birthday prezzie
Just further proof of your awesomeness Alex.
@BFB1131 - haha thanks. Good to see you around again!
I need to tell you about my stalker one of these days!
@CareyGLY - Blog about it!
Nice blog!
I actually got familiar to your blog pretty recently.
But, I will definiately become one of those long time followers–is that what you call it on xanga?
@Resentity - They usually just call it “creepers”. JUST kidding. Followers, readers, subscribers, etc. They all works!
Aw wow you have fans lol jk
your blogs rocks!
@hollywoodfever91 - You a fan??
@Roadlesstaken - Psh no! lol haha jk but sure why not
That’s cool. She did a great job on the article.
@hazey_chique - She did. Now, if only we can find somewhere to put it….
The article was really well written! Maybe there will be new Xangans after it is published!
@karen0z - That would be cool!
hehe. i love the picture you posted up with this post:P hahaha
it comes to no surprise…these blog entries go to my e-mail:P and they make me smile:D
@sabbygurl - Weee, it’s good to know to know that! Btw, I’ll be in Toronto June 24-27th!
oooo. that’s good. i’ll be done school by then. and hopefully actually have a job. one of those days might fall on convocation, but i’ll be making space for your arrival to the great city of toronto in my day book:D
@sabbygurl - excellent. Yeah, stay tuned to my pulse/posts in the future! I’m sure I’ll be mentioning it again as it gets nearer.