December 20, 2010
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Someone needs you. Be there.
I saw this random note stuck on the window at a coffee shop last month. I was immediately captivated by it, but at the time I couldn’t quite put into words what it was about it that intrigued me. I knew that I liked it though, so I snapped this quick picture as I was heading out. I posted it online soon after, still not sure what to make of it. The only definite things I could say about it at the time was that it made me smile and ponder.
There were some interesting responses to this picture after I posted it. Here’s a sample of some of the comments:
“That is, like, God talking, so awesome.”
“I love this. I bet it made your heart melt for a second
”“I think you read it wrong. I think someone is gonna kill you. They need to kill you.”
Geez, I sure hope the last comment isn’t correct!Anyway, I recently rediscovered the above picture on my phone, which is why I’m thinking about this note again. I asked myself, “What is actually going through my head when I read those two simple sentences?”
I determined that what I was doing was figuring out who in my life really needed me. Does anybody? My first thought was my immediate family. They would surely miss me if I was gone, but do they necessarily rely on me for anything? Maybe. I then though about my friends and once more asked myself do any of them really count on me in their lives? Again, maybe. Should I be bothered that I have such doubt and uncertainty on this topic? I don’t know.
However, there is one thing I’m sure of; it would be an honor to be that special somebody that people feel they need in their lives. Now, I just need to figure out who these people are and where I can find them if they don’t exist in my life yet. Who would like to point me in the right direction?
You know, I probably thought way more than I should have of this simple note. Oh well, it is how my mind works. The picture is currently my phone’s background to remind myself that I have quite a lot I need to understand and discover of myself, those around me, and life in general. I’m eager and ready to do so!I’m still curious on how others interpret this note. What kind of thoughts or feelings does this bring out of you?
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I don’t know WHY, but I have this irrepressable urge to go into ninja mode and randomly give people coffee.
Not even kidding.
To me, it would be asking myself who need me now…
My first thought is of someone who wants to commit suicide and they find the note and realize that they are needed by someone.
I’m feeling that perhaps no matter how bad someone feels, or how worthless or useless they think themselves to be..that they will always be needed by someone. And that we should always come back for that person, for that feelings of being needed. For instance, I take breaks off facebook and my aunt always texts me on my phone saying she misses me posting and that we understand only each other (we’re both bipolar) and that seeing my posts on facebook makes life a lot easier. I think I understand that. I always go back on Facebook but it’s good to know that I’m needed in that kind of way.
Eh. I’m not gonna rain on anyone’s parade lol
I’m sure the note is referring to something sexual.
It makes me want to give back to the homeless. :] The ones that are typically in the lively part of campus seem to be particularly grateful for food.
I think the strength of a true man and a true woman is the ability to help and give to others, no matter how small the gift.
I remember a time back when I was in China and I went to a Buddhist shop to buy some incense and candles for my altar. The woman there was always smiling and was more than kind in helping out with any questions.
It has been 3 years since that time, and I still fondly remember her kindness and it has served as an inspiration for me to be giving to others.
One of my friends and I used to leave notes in random items at stores or on random signs. We got the idea because I opened a book at walmart and it said, “Smile because someone is thinking you’re beautiful.” I still have the note somewhere in a picture frame.
To keep on holding on to hope. I’m glad you’re having these positive thoughts. Have a wonderful time enjoying the holidays with the ones whom you care about most, Alex .
To me, it means that I need to step up to the plate and do what I need to do, quickly.
Take time out for things that really matter.
People.
Especially people that you love, but also the people that love you.
We get too caught up in ourselves.
there’s this one quote i can never get out of my head and your picture reminded me of it: “everybody has a secret that would break your heart. if everyone only realized, then the world would be a much better place.”
when im downtown, i see so many different people and judge them from what i perceive. sometimes i encounter someone with a bad attitude, and i instantly think theyre just a downright bitch. definitely not a very nice thought.
its so easy to judge nameless people who just step in and out of your life, but they all have problems, and if we only took a second to remember that these people also have their own lives and their own shit to deal with, we may all just be nice to one another. i might not think of that girl as a “bitch” but someone whos having a rough day.
anyway, this kinda deviates from what you were writing about, but thats what that picture means to me. i think i need to learn to relate and be more understanding to people around me.
I think I share your thoughts on the note. But also, when I see those words, it just seems like a reminder for me that there are those out there who can use a friend..someone who cares, so be there for those who are reaching out to you.
It made me think of a note I found in my desk, when I moved cubicles. It was left by a man who died of cancer. I took a photo of it too. It said “Every day in every way I am getting better and better.”
It also made me think of my mother who when she worked as a legal librarian (down in MD no less!) she used to leave notes of a Bible passage in the book! (I forget what passage it was!)
And it also made me think of my friend who is going through a rough time right now. I try to be there for her.
I think there are plenty of people who need someone, it can be as simple as a smile to brighten their day!
that looks like your handwriting lol
thank God there is other stuff to read.
hmm…for me, that just inspires me to be more keen to the people i keep close and see if there’s something bothering them so that i’m there to help in any way possible.
funny the things we randomly find.
I personally think no one necessarily NEEDS anyone else in their lives. It’s a matter of WANTING that person there. Everyone gets lonely at times and there are days when one feels the need to reach out to another person, but it’s not needed. Some people go through life living in complete solitude, and that’s fine with them… not realizing who wants to be part of their lives. Maybe that makes them happy, or miserable… you never know.
However, I do think that if the person who “needs someone” isn’t thinking about it, the person who wants to find them is the one who really needs them. It’s kind of hard to explain what’s going on in my mind, so I’ll just make a perfect example for you…
I am currently seeing someone and I am in a long distance relationship with them. It’s easy for them to forget about me because I’m not physically there, and they honestly act like they don’t “need” me sometimes. There are days, however, where he can just out of the blue tell me things I thought I’d never hear… so in a sense, he ends up missing me when I’m not around. I don’t need to be there for him, but I am. I feel I want to be around for him to have some emotional support and stability through his roughest times of life, and even just for him to have a crutch to lean on when things are unstable. It goes the same for me. I don’t necessarily need him, but I want him to be around… I guess, mainly, because I care.
I don’t know if that made sense at all to you, but it made more sense in my head lol.
my immediate thoughts and feelings were…
what a bunch of fucking needy cunts.
For me I interpret it as encouraging me to share whatever I have – some light, some heart – to whoever needs it. Withhold nothing…..
We are all here for one another. You and I and they and Gaia…
I see it as a good thing. Everyone is wanted by someone out there or means something to someone. Almost like an antisuicidal note? hmm.
It’s a reminder that everyone needs someone to talk to; someone to listen to them; someone to lean their shoulders for them to cry on; someone to just be there for em through their happiness and sorrow. Everyone needs someone.. even if it is for five minutes. It makes a big difference!
I think it’s just a nice reminder to people that are out during their busy days that there are people in this world that need you, even if it just means yoru company. I think it’s a boost for the person reading it, and a good thing for the person on the recieving end.
uh oh. sounds urgent. get there fast, Alex!
This must be the Everyman’s spidey sense tingling.
I’ll be sadly frank; my initial response is “No they don’t.” I think I’m just burned out on trying to be too many things to too many people. I’m trying harder to only be there for people who really need me and who are my responsibility, if you will.
I think the only creature who actively NEEDS me (and couldn’t find anyone else to “fill the void,” so to speak) is my cat.
We all need someone. Simple as that.
It’s such a simple and short message, but it sure packs a punch. I love it.
I can be there for I am preparing for the Xanga meet-up on the moon!
This is a lovely, lovely entry. It made me smile when I read it.
(There’s a site that sells ‘I love you cards’ that you’re supposed to pass out. To a stranger, leave one someplace obscure–I love it. Everytime I’m in a downer mood, I take the time off my schedule to go out, take a walk, and hide them in random places around town. ^^.)
Maybe it was a message from above. There’s a reason for everything.
i think its a universal emotion to be needed, to be important to someone else, to be of unique value. The note is a sweet reminder, you’re important to someone. And not by means of any grand gesture, just by being there.
It says, “quit being so selfish. You’re not the only person in this world who matters.”
i think it’s a lot harder to be needed by someone than i can imagine. i think it’s hard to be that one person that someone can’t be themselves without. and i think it makes it that much more meaningful when you are needed by someone.
I don’t really think anyone “needs” me…so it kind of just makes me sad to think about.
So right!!!
I think it means there will always be people in our lives who need us. Strangers, co-workers, fellow students, neighbors, Xangans, friends, close friends, family…parents, kids, siblings, spouse, etc.
And they might just need a smile from us…need for us to open a door for them…or they might need to share their hurt with us/cry on our shoulder…or so much more!
I love that you made this your phone background! What a great daily reminder to be available…and by that I mean be aware at the start of each day that someone needs you…then be open and observe what’s going on around you, so that you can help.
Guess What? You are needed here on Xanga! We need you! You bring such joy, wisdom, kindness, fun, and help to those of us here! Thank you!
And Merry Christmas to you and your family!
HUGS!
Wow, I wish I saw a note aka a sign hahah that’s interesting
i’m with babiebooAnnie and her reply. it’s good that you are taking time to ponder what you encounter. especially since you saw the note twice and it captured your attention. i don’t think that’s an accident or necessarily bad that you are taking time to contemplate the meaning. For me, being there is the best way to be a friend. Not fixing, not suggesting, not doing. Just listening and being present.
You don’t realize, at times, who needs you. You’re worth more than you think?
Lol, well my first thought was, “Be WHERE!?!?”
It sort of reminds me of high school for some reason. Everyone “needed” someone to vent out their drama to, and if things got too out of hand, the infamous “I’m gonna kill myself” definitely played a role.
Although I hate to admit it, everyone needs SOMEBODY. Someone needs me, someone needs you, someone needs the next new face you are going to meet. I need certain people (for various reasons), and certain people need me (for God knows what reason. Lol).
I would think volunteering for something. BUT that killing comment made me crack up. I don’t know why. ;D
@RockstarJuiceNStarburst - Well, that’s certainly one of the more creative reactions to that note haha
@kinamorata - Yeah, I definitely can see that note in that context.
@Hinase - That’s cool your aunt and you have that type of relationship. I sometimes feel that way with people I’ve gotten close to on this site. It’s a good way for me to keep up with people’s lives!
@fLiPgUy31O - Oh why did I guess you would say something like that? haha
@emily_shannon - You have homeless people on your campus? Is that a normal sight?
@Bodhiseeker - That’s awesome. I do like the pay it forward idea.
@ALovingAdversary - That’s pretty cool =) . There should be more of that in the world.
@nov_way - I don’t necessarily have “the one” to be with for the holidays, but I have some good friends and family to spend time with!
@eternal_relevance - Yes, we do don’t we?
@suuperstar - What you described sounds very much like the fundamental attribution error. Have you ever heard of that?
@Babieboo_Annie - I like that way of thinking of it =)
@AmeliaHart - I like that quote from that man! Did you know him well?
@Roadlesstaken - No….is that a psych term?
@stupid_systemus - Um yeah, my handwriting’s not that good!
@ThePrince - yeah, we sometimes forget how much people might need help from us because they’re afraid to reach out.
@LitlKittyKat - I can see where you’re coming from. The whole want versus need thing is what makes me unsure of how I am with people for sure.
@boilingicicle - Seems like a lot of people would be fortunate to bump into you in their lives!
@ShimmerBodyCream - Uh oh, did you have some people in mind? haha
@Roadlesstaken - My college’s campus is located in the downtown area of a moderately-big city, so… yes.
@jhesyka - antisuicide note…yeah, I guess you could put it that way.
@jeezshoua - Would you say that’s more of a want feeling than a need feeling?
@Drugsy - I do like this trend of people leaving notes like that around. It should spread!
@TheBigShowAtUD - Alright, because you said so! *teleports*
@drung888 - Ah, now if only they provided clearer directions as to where I should go!
@GreekPhysique - Have you been taken advantage a lot in the past?
@randaness - how about your SO?
@puella_sapiens216 - haha, your interpretation is quite to the point.
@Rob_of_the_Sky - Yes, set it up! It’s gonna be the best meet up yet!
@lilxwunxnxluv - Awesome! What’s the name of that site?
@cognney - So you would agree with the first commenter I highlighted in my entry then haha
@Roadlesstaken - Well, what do you mean by that? Do you mean… do you want to only be around them because you think they are really your friends or you just find comfort in hanging out/talking to others? I suppose it all depends on the perspective and the person you are referring to. For me, I’ve learned to live independently… and I don’t really talk to many people on a personal basis because I have trust issues. However, that doesn’t mean I don’t get upset or feel sad or lonely because I don’t have someone who actually misses me out there. I have my days where I just want to curl up and think about why I don’t have someone who wants to find me. Meh. I digress… I’d rather want to be around someone because I think it’s right, not need to be with someone because I want to be, well, needy.
@nerdyveggiegirl - Simple gestures do seem to go a long way for people.
@banZaii_itZ_keIk0o - I totally agree, hence my unsureness when I was thinking about it too
@vicdaily - How about your SO?
@adamswomanlost - Aw thanks, I’m sure a lot of people would say the same for you on this site. You’re a good one! Happy holidays!
@hollywoodfever91 - I’ll leave some around my house when you come by, alright?
@Roadlesstaken - I don’t have a SO? lol.
@estrellasong - As I’ve gotten older, I have definitely learned that just being there for someone, without having to say anything, can be all that person needs.
@Southeast_Beauty - Seeing as I have high expectations for myself and tend to downplay my accomplishments and fortunes, I would agree.
@oOo_itsJuJu - Haha, so after high school people didn’t need people to vent to?
@xchinkylaydee - Ah yes, my friend totally ruined the good vibe -__-
@suuperstar - Yep. It’s the idea that we tend to see internal reasons for why people do stuff while we see external reasons for when we do something. For example, if someone cuts us off in traffic they’re a rude person, but if we do it because we’re in a hurry. Something like that.
The notes reminds me to always be a good person and be there for others just like how many have always been there for me[:
@Roadlesstaken - Clear directions of where to go AND the ability to web sling there would be o-so helpful. But the question remains, would you go so far as to don the spandex!
(Yes, unequivocally yes).
@drung888 - If it wins over the chicks…sure!
Yes, to some extent. I allow it in certain cases; sometimes wounded people need to vent and then are cured. I just feel dumb about occasionally giving money/time to the wrong people and letting them drain me a bit, you know?
@GreekPhysique - Yes, that’s incredibly disheartening.
@Roadlesstaken - oh man. i knew i was quick to judge, but i never thought of myself having a fundamental psychological error LOL
@Roadlesstaken - He’d get over it eventually.
@suuperstar - If it makes you feel better almost everyone falls for this error at one point or another. However, if we recognize when we’re doing it we can make the occurrences happen less!
@Roadlesstaken - slightly better… haha. for the record, i have been conscious about it and am definitely making an effort not to do that anymore 0=)
side note, i would love for u to do a psychological analysis of me one day and to point out all else that is wrong with my mind. mwahaha
@suuperstar - Think about it as faulty thinking/heuristics and it’s not so bad!
The person who left the message probably intended the note for their plumber to come and unclog their toilet from a fresh morning round.
@Agent_Eric - hahahaha
Olivia is the 1st person who comes to mind. Then all the other young children/teens who need someone to advocate for them & help them. Honestly, probably anyone in general. Even some random person in that coffee shop who just needed a simple smile.
LOL I love that last comment :’D :’D
This makes me want to write Post It’s and hand them out to stranger with things like, “We all go through pain, but there is cure at the end.” and “Smile, it can change someone’s life.” I THINK I WILL!! =D
It’s SO weird to see 2 sides of comments, one of people being supportive and thinking this is something deep and emotionly positive, while others think it’s stupid and a waste of time.
Clearly they’ve never had someone change their life.
@Roadlesstaken - Lol, they did, but you know how high school drama queens are… They’re going to kill themselves if they don’t have the latest fashions or if a girl “stole their style.”
Ok, this is one silly post. But heh looks worth of time
it means flip needs you to massage his hairy back for him.
all jokes aside: everyone needs someone. maybe you have someone in your life who needs you to be there to give them a simple hug or a simple smile to brighten their day. they could also need you for something more extreme.
I remember when you put that on facebook ^_^ I really liked that picture. Well if it helps, I need you…to keep being awesome!
Cool. It does sound so urgent. Like somebody really needs me. It urges me to help someone. Okay. Off to my work as a superwoman then. xD
I just got back from an interesting night and totally needed this right now. Thanks!
Being simple and to-the-point is what I try to do lol… that’s what accounting majors are all about – screw that “take a million words to explain ten” idea that others have lol
What I thought of, which has probably been said already, was that “no man is an island.” We all touch the lives of other people (“It’s A Wonderful Life” anyone?) and we are all here for that reason. Our purpose on earth is to love people and do our part to make the world a better place than it was when we were born. Our job is to be faithful to recognize and take the opportunities to be love in someone’s life–whether a brief moment or a huge commitment. We have a choice, every day, to be the person we were designed to be or to be lazy and small-minded, only focused on ourselves. I see that note as a call to step into our destinies as people by reaching out in every way we can. I see it as a call to see people as amazing, valuable, and worth effort. All people.
It’s a perspective check, Alex.
Thanks for sharing.
~V
@Roadlesstaken - Oh no! We have a pretty big office where I am at and we move every project. When I moved into that cube I found that note and a pair of shoes, which seemed kind of symbolic to me. I found out when one of his buddies came by my cube to greet me and saw me holding the pair of shoes and told me. So I left both the shoes and note in there when I left that cube for someone else!
Great post Alex and nice idea to put it up as your phone’s background – great reminder! BUT BUT BUT — I agree with @fLiPgUy31O - werD!
I see the note as an attempt to prevent suicide.
I’m glad it makes us think.
Its a very elegant thought.
Just being there for someone when they need it is the best thing you will ever do.
Maybe it’s because it is the holiday season. I think of someone needing love, a kind word from a warm heart in a cold world, or food and shelter. The note might be posted by an adult about a child
*but*
the words “Be there” sound more like a demand or perhaps a reminder of an already planned rendezvous.
I think it is a good reminder! I know that I will keep it in mind!
It reminds me that I should be more selfless and be there for other people, putting their needs before my own.
It would strike me as odd, almost as if life is telling me there’s someone that needs me right then and there. And I’d probably think about it the rest of the day and then tie in a following coincidence of someone needing me as fate. Seeing as that is how I think. But yeah, that has invoked some thought right now. I feel like I should be a more ready helping hand to people.
I immediately thought of my recent post (“in real life I need you” or something of the like) when just looking at the title. Most of us use Xanga as an outlet, whether it be to vent or to be creative (open to interpretations). Most of use could USE support. Most of us should GIVE support, even if it’s leaving a little comment on the blogs we read, informing the author that we appreciate them and their interpretations of life. I do wonder who posted that note, though..
I liked watching the video on the top of your page. Original to say the least.
I’m not sure what to think of that note. Could have so many different meanings. Concerning so many different people. Was it even supposed to be there?
my mind goes the same like u.. who needs me? hmm..
Seems to ask me to reach out for someone; that person who needs reassurance, comfort or help.
I have been thinking a lot about how I can give to help someone this holiday season. So seeing your post reminded me to do so.
@RockstarJuiceNStarburst - i hope i run into you then.
I am sure that in your own way, you have touched a million lives, advertantly or inadvertantly. Peace my friend.
It’s to remind people that everybody needs a friend; a confidant. Most people go about their lives everyday, shunning those looked over by society. As if they are the dirt and we are the fools that walk on it. And of course, someone is always needing you. Go help.
“just hang in there.. there’s a point.”
I know we usually think of our family and friends when it comes to being there for someone, but sometimes we need to think outside the norm. For example it could be a random stranger that is having a bad day and they just need a warm smile and an encouragement from you. I think it really depends on who is reading the note and how they interpret it. For me, I tend to think of the kids who are less fortunate then me and I tend to lean towards that way of reaching out to help.
Looks to me like someone’s just written it out and put it in the window to try and provoke thought in passers-by.
If God existed, I doubt he’d write his revelations on scraps of paper and put them in coffee shop windows…
I think I would have thought about who needed me and if there was anything I needed to do for someone.
@Roadlesstaken - It could be both.. the way I look at it.
Aw, this is really sweet.
I think of the future, and all of the opportunities I’ll have to be there for someone. And then, I’ll be there for them.
<3
i like the first one: G-d is talking to YOU; are you listening? (:
@nepenthium - My friend’s the jokester!
@christina_believe - I think some people are just having fun. I know they’re not being too serious about it haha
@jeannie_dot_com - Does Flip have a hairy back?? Has he shown it to you???
@RaquelHiggins005 - I’ll try my best!
@thesnuffbox - haha a part of me felt like I was some superhero too that was receiving a call for duty.
@AmyC0987 - Interesting night eh? Good or bad?
@TheMarriedFreshman - Thank you for that well thought out comment! Hmm, a perspective check…
@oxyGENE_08 - Maybe it’s from one of those Filipino girls from that dating site haha
@McScarry - Yeah, that note would be definitely effective in that regard.
@TheSutraDude - For real. It also gives it a sense of urgency
@TheFifthHero - That’s a good reminder to have!
@x_onholiday - So you’re like me then haha. Yeah, that note stayed with me the rest of that night.
@Invisible_Crazed_Chica - I guess in the end it doesn’t really matter who posted it, as long as it had some effect on people that read it.
@Days_likethis - seems like the note was purposefully placed there. Thanks for the compliment on the video above. It was my entry into a Xanga commercial contest from last year which I ended up winning =)
@yan_ni - Come up with anyone?
@icapillas - Any particular people come to mind for you?
@BrEnHoLtZ - That’s good to hear!
@ZSA_MD - Indeed, we all probably do and not realize for the most part when we do it
@AquaShadow9 - It does make you pay more attention to your surroundings. We have so much to give to the world if we put in the effort.
@Insomnia_Pickles_XtraTomato - It’s a good reminder for people that they have a lot ahead in their lives and not to get too bogged down in the negatives
@suefa_lee - Ah, I see where you’re coming from with that.
@charvisioku - But but…what if God was one of us?? =P
@Roadlesstaken -
Yes, of course. Thank YOU for sharing.
@A_M0DERN_BEAUTY - I’m keeping my ears and eyes open!
@nikkijayxoxo - Anyone in particular comes to mind for you?
@Toro69 - Indeed, sometimes a listening ear is all they need.
I would interpret that as a queue to be more aware of the people around you. Someone always needs you, whether it’s just a smile to brighten his/her day as you pass each other on the street or a serious talk with a loved one.
Just remember to be conscious of the people around you
good luck <3
Looks like someone named Be There, left a note for someone named Someone to let them know they’re needed!
I do that sometimes too. Except my note says, “I’m right behind you.”
@Roadlesstaken - You kinda wish it was huh?! haha
I think everyone needs to be needed so that note hits home
It didn’t strike me as so metaphysical/touchy-feely. Was probably a note left for a specific person about somewhere they need to go. The writer is letting the intended receiver know that they are needed at that place so if they were thinking about not going, they need to go nonetheless.
None that I can think of for now.
since you have so many girls on ur xanga to be there for. the ones you dont want to be tehre for you can throw my way and i can “be there” for them too
I took it as someone is lonely out there and needs someone to keep them company. Maybe help them through grief and turbulence. Or just someone to talk to. Either stranger or friend.
I think it’s a reminder for those people who are just so busy that they forgot about other people in their lives. It’s nice of you to even take serious consideration on this little note. What if people are just too occupied to care? I think we all are sometimes. We just have to make time and think of those people in our lives every once in a while. And it feels great to be needed too, don’t you think?
My gut reaction when seeing that sign was, “I don’t think I’ve ‘been there’ in the past” for the people who need me. Second reaction–I want to change that as soon as possible, starting NOW.
i love it. i fond a note once in Korean at a coffee shop. i held onto it until I found someone to translate it.
I took that message to remind me that there is a much bigger world out there than we give credit for. It might not always be that someone within our immediate circle needs us, but that we should always be aware of the fact that there are other people who will need or help in some way shape or form. Because every time we help someone in need, another butterfly effect is produced.
@my_name_is_Sanoj - Good luck to you too with that task!
@CareyGLY - Hmm, what bad names!
@coolmonkey - Not bad. Personally, I would have gone for the “You’re next!” option to keep them sweating.
@Manbeast - You got your fangirls already! Come on, your s/n is Manbeast haha
@unshakeablekingdom - What did it say?
@ElusiveSoul - Go for it!
@kyalzinlay - It’s a wonderful feeling, that’s for sure.
@bengozen - Good interpretation. I expected nothing less from you!
I think it’s sort of a reminder that, sometimes, we lose touch with those in our lives who need us and we don’t even realize it. I wonder if the person who posted the note realizes what an impact they’ve made and how many people they’ve caused to think about it.
@PromisesOfForever - It would be pretty cool if that person came upon this blog.
@Roadlesstaken - Oh wow! Totally. I didn’t even think of that.
honestly, the first thing i thought of was how sad it was that people should need a reminder of how to be humane. of course someone might need you. anyone might need you, for a moment in their life, everyone needs someone. at some point. but then i got over it after reading your interpretation. very well thought out. xD at this point i don’t think anyone really needs me.. nope, no one. i feel happy knowing that. very happy.
@pcketfulofsunshine - Do you just don’t want that responsibility, or is it something else?
@Roadlesstaken - burden. i don’t want that burden. i’m too old and tired.. “when will it be my turn to be happy?
” that’s how i see it anyhow.
@pcketfulofsunshine - Ah gotcha. I guess when I think about it the ideal situation is when two people need each other the same amount. That would be pretty cool.
Wonderful post! That note is a great reminder for all of us. The world is a beautiful place to live in. We should believe in the goodness of people and share the love to everyone around us..
@Roadlesstaken - i guess… then for your sake, i hope you find that satisfaction in life; i’m sure you will.
@sky_gel - I’m sure the kids you help out appreciate your kindness!
@Roadlesstaken - Not immediately, but I think I might need to keep a closer eye on my brother.
It’s really nice of you to answer everyone’s comments, by the way!
Hmm..when I first read it, I just think that all the small things you do for different people may actually (or secretly) mean a lot to them..or I’m not sure what I’m quite saying ^^ Anyways, it was really cool for someone to post that.
I like this post, and the picture
@SuperRat - Agreed!
@nikkijayxoxo - Oh it’s nothing, wouldn’t you?
@x_unSospiro - I see what you mean. It’s true; we tend to underestimate the effect we can have on others.
Also, I think it’s awesome that someone even THOUGHT to take the time to write something as thought provoking as this little note. Random, but sincere. Kind of like those “free hugs,” signs without being as intrusive. Take it or leave it.
@lilabear - It’s a nice thing to do that I hope catches on!
It makes me feel guilty.
Because apparently I am not there for this someone :
@LOLOEWE - Well, every second is another chance for you to change that!
it strikes me as something someone would put on my door on valentine’s day ha ha. Other than that if I were to get this note I could almost guarantee it would be family related in my case.
sounds like a job for.. SUPERMAN! yaay!
it kind of reminds me of stuff people write on bathroom stalls.I once read ” My deepest darkest secret is that i’ve been hiding my HPV for 5 years”
yah… people like to open up to strangers
It just reminds me that no matter what you’re going through, chances are someone you love and care about is going through something they need support with, too. Even if it’s just dropping a note saying hi they’ll know you’re there. That’s what matters.
@Roadlesstaken - Me too!
Simple, succinct, and oh so true.
Whenever you read something like this, someone always pops up in your mind.
And it reminds me that I should be a better friend and confidante for the people in my life.
I love your more poetical take on it Alex….but I just end up thinking either boringly practical thoughts as to why someone would write it…perhaps as a pre-arranged coded communication…or I start imagining various Jason Bourne style agent stuff, if i’d found it i would have taken up an observation point and waited.
@ShimmerBodyCream - LOL
You’ll get there. Maybe its a just a reminder that there is always someone who needs your help- it just takes time and a lot of incidents to realise.
&dont worry about thinking too much. Thats what these little notes are for!
Dear Alex,
I interpret the note that people need each other, and we should be there for others. A grand sort of feeling for this time of year especially.
Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. I read your comment on Dan’s site about perhaps thinking California was the best state you might want to live in. Go for it. The sales tax is almost 10 per cent. Housing is abominably high, esp. in the Bay (San Francisco) and L.A. areas, but if you can afford it, there is more to do than possibly anywhere else, and Cali is so big you can fit most of the eastern states inside it. I’m still planning to someday just drive up the coast road to Oregon, taking video and photos as I go.
Michael F. Nyiri, poet, philosopher, fool
@Starlight_Angel_79 - I could see it in a greeting card now. Maybe I should pass on the idea?
@ordinary_gir1 - Funny how that’s easier to be open with. Sorta like how we do on this site.
@orangemirrors - Good interpretation
@Meowmeowkimmaee - Ahhh I’ve been graced with your presence! It’s been a long time since I’ve seen you here!
@mZdejavuZ - That’s good!
@BFB1131 - To be honest I briefly thought about it from a spy POV or something too. That would be pretty cool!
@mandyman27 - yeah, I think I’ve learned to accept my overthinking ways haha
@baldmike2004 - Yeah, that’s definitely some downsides I’m aware of…but man, CA is the place to be!
@Roadlesstaken - Aggh i know. Your comment really woke me up to how inactive ive been in the community. I would read subs n just not comment anymore when i used to comment on every post, pulse, protected pulse, etc. I cant say i can be as active as i used to be, especially this coming school quarter but im trying. Thank you for the wake up call!
@Roadlesstaken - Hahahhahaa did u get that from my one facebook comment?
@Roadlesstaken - www.iloveyoucards.org
They have cards that say “I Love You” in other languages too! <3
@Meowmeowkimmaee - No problem. Yeah, it’s just nice to see your friendly face around sometimes. Make it a habit woman!
@Roadlesstaken - yes yes i will!
maybe there’s no reason to go out looking, the most amazing things/people come when we’re least expecting
very encouraging post. i guess you ARE a mood lifter HAHA
@swtaznxtc90 - I’m one of those amazing people that came by that you didn’t expect, right?
Sounds like a reminder that you are important and that you are needed and that you should be making an effort to helping others. I like it
thanks for sharing
@Roadlesstaken - why of COURSEEE
@mylilmei - Glad you liked it as much as I did =)
we’re all needy to a certain extent? not only that, but yea someone in this world needs you: parents, family, or friends. can’t imagine living a life all alone.
@H0Eass - We are social creatures!
still looking for the old post. i’ll repost it sometime and let you know when i do. in the meantime, happy holidays man!
I think it’ll help someone, honestly. There are people out there who hurt and need help but can’t get the help they need. Notes like that will keep them going.
It also makes me stop and think: who have I deserted recently that needs me? and things like that…
@TortugaTourGuide - I wonder how long that note stayed up on that window. I hope it touched more people.