October 7, 2010
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So, I kinda met someone…
Where should I begin?
She contacted me last weekend, saying that she was going to be in town for a conference and wanted to see if I could meet up (in case you’re wondering yes, she is a Xangan). I didn’t know her too well at the time, but after talking for a bit and also after finding out she’s friends in real life with someone I’ve met up with before I decided it wouldn’t hurt to see her.
Turned out to be a good decision. We met up for the first time last Monday and it seemed like we really clicked. Our sense of humor and conversations were really in sync, which made the evening fly by. Before the end of the night, I already knew I had to see this girl again before she left.
I did end up seeing her again Thursday night and most of Friday. Without giving away too much details, we became…quite fond of one another (lets leave it at that for now
). Sadly, the bittersweetness of this experience finally caught up with us as she finally had to return home this past Saturday, with home being California (more evidence supporting my theory that California is where I belong).What are we now, exactly? To be honest, I’m not totally sure myself. It’s definitely a bit complicated. This could have very well ended up as just a nice vacation romance were it not for the fact that we’ve grown slightly attached to one another. However, we also understand the sucky reality of our situation. Now that distance is a big factor for us, what can we really do?
I guess if you had to label it, you could say we are pretty much in an open relationship. I know I know, that has a lot of bad connotations and I’ve never really been in one, but after discussing with her this was the option that made the most sense to us. If distance wasn’t such an issue we would most likely go out. Unfortunately, due to this major obstacle, in addition to the fact we only known each other for a short time, we don’t want to hold each other back if we happen to meet someone in our respective areas.
I’m sure in due time we will reevaluate our situation and decide if it’s better to just stay friends, become an exclusive relationship, or maybe become enemies haha. Fortunately, the situation isn’t totally hopeless. I am looking into visiting her area during Thanksgiving break and I have strongly entertained the idea of moving to CA eventually, which is something I’ve been thinking about way before I met her. From her side, she has connections with the DC/MD area and might end up staying over here one day. Who knows? As you can see, the future is quite uncertain.
I don’t know what will happen next, but this I do know; she makes me happy. I guess we’ll just have to wait and see how this will all plays out. For now, I’m just enjoying the ride.
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Thoughts & Prayers as you figure it out, Happy 4 Yall!
Yay for Xangan relationships…
I hope it works out for y’all!
A Xangalationship! Things do happen here. Actually Xanga has a lot to do with me getting to know my wife (I didn’t meet her here, but we kind of got to know each other here)
Tread carefully, but I can tell you are. I’m glad you are happy though.
BTW CA is beautiful. I went out there in May, spent a night in San Diego and then went camping at a music festival. Definitely want to go out there again, but actually stay in the city, no camping this time around lol.
Aww so bittersweet, but congrats anyway Alex! I’m happy for you =) I’m in a long distance relationship now and it sucks… but you know if you both really like each other, you can definitely make it work.
Hope it works out! Happy you found someone :]
oh yayyyy!!!!CONGRATTSSSS it’s always SOoooOoo nice when u meet someone <3 too bad its a bit farrrrr but..
cali is the way to go man 
aww…hope it works! isn’t xanga amazing…
*awww* so cuteee ~ I’ve read some stories on xanga about distanced relationships, I hope this works out for you!
baha yepp, you never knowww. this’ll be exciting. & yess, california= definitely the place to be. because it’s getting all cold in nova, me & my youngin friends are like D: WAN GO CALI.
Good luck, it sounds like it’s been a long time coming.
Can I just say I love that title? The phrase “I met someone” always gives me a little thrill. ^_^
I sincerely hope the two of you have a blast, Alex.
~V
Good luck!!!
happy for you. Since you’re in a relationship now though you should stop drilling those students of yours 
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… which is why I didn’t move in to the room next to you. You change your mind too much. You’ve been in this situation before so I’m not even gonna give you advice. Best of luck, though.
So weird , my comments didn’t stick as far as I knew….
i’m happy for you man! =) definitely enjoy the ride!
WOOT! lol now imagine all the hearts you just broke
I’m the only one that DOES NOT APPROVE!!!!
Fuck, its official…the last good man is taken…
SIGH
lol
Aww
okay okay, i will admit it to the xanga world… that girl is me =P haha jk but seriously man.. not surprised it is a xangan. i just hope your spidey senses are correct on her… btw cute shit when you said you had to see her again… such a kdrama whore.
that’s greattt…hope it works out!
That is great news, but long distance relationship is not easy. Do hope it all work out.
Awwww, that’s very sweet. I’ve been in three long-distance relationships that started on Xanga, and they can work out. Don’t be afraid of the distance.
I cannot articulate any thoughts right now.
Yay Xanga relatoionships!
Stop being a bitch. Just move to Cali already.
Awww you’re so cute =]
lmao @ xanga relationships.
Congrats! =) I’m sure you’ll figure things out soon enough. Good luck! Hold on tight for the ride!
Sounds great!
Haha ditto to what Alex said!
Hope it works out well!
By the way, what about the other girl from school you had feelings for? Is she still in your heart or have you given up on her?
WOOOO! Good luck!
YAY YAY YAY…Go Alex, Go…I mean it visit her in California, and I cannot help but read your past posts and cannot begin to describe either how much your heart is set out in California. Sure, its hard having that distance, but think of the times you will be seeing each other and those are going to be some of the best in your life…
In my life, I met someone too, he’s from Chicago, and good thing too he is about five hours from here, so it is healthy and we just met a few days ago online…weird how online things happen more and more often these days.
Kuddos Alex and I am here if you need to vent!
Erin
@Keeko1 - I was wondering the same…
Happy for ya though, Alex! Hope you enjoy it in all its craziness
“more evidence supporting my theory that California is where I belong”
California is where every asian belong–it being so close to our homeland and all.
mm open long distance relationship huh..
good luck.
btw, when’s her birthday?
i kinda figured you met someone
hahaha coz u are no mroe single in fb! :P
Dang that could of been us lol JK JK but aww so cute one of my friend
actually met the love of her life here but he was local though awww so sweet:)I wish you the best but Cali is like so farrrrrrr away :/ but good luck Alex
Juicy!
Goodluck mang! Anyway, about LDR’s, you guys are just STATES away…some people have it harder like OCEANS APART. Tryin to be positive for you man cos this could be it for you! 
That’s awesome. See? I wasn’t lying when I said you were cute. I do hope it works out for you..because everyone deserves some happiness..
Sunny California is great =). *Cough* I’m being biased her since I was born and raised in this state. Anyway, do enjoy the experience and let things take their natural course.
If you ignore all the states in between, the east and west coasts aren’t too far apart. I mean, there’s only a 3 hour difference! It’s not impossible man, especially for a guy like you.
I don’t believe in long distant relationships…but follow your heart & your gut. =)
You just might cause a few female Xangans to be a little disappointed with this news. The Beatles used to keep John Lennon’s marriage a secret.
Congrats and I hope things work out just remember where there’s a will there’s a way.
dont worry too much about the future, just enjoy what you have now=D
open….FOR ME! cheating again on me, hoe?
I vote enemies. Hate sex is supposed to be awesome!
Awwww!
Well, I hope that things work out. It sucks that distance is such a problem, though 
Been there, done that.
Bittersweet indeed. =
Wow, she’s a Xangan and you’re posting all this out there for her and the world to see? Must be serious!
awwwwww.
Grats man
that is one reason of why i like xanga.
distance is tough, it has been the (mostly only) problem for all my relationships, unfortunately…
but i had always looked at is this way..
“Oh big deal, it’s just ______ years, how does that compare when I want to spend the rest of my life with you?”
my opinion anyway…
Aww that’s cute!
(By the way, the title just made me go “awwww” even before I read it. haha)
And given that you have visited California so many times already, I would also say that you do belong in California. haha I mean, who doesn’t like California?
Best of luck!
I tried to *like* this… and then realized that this wasn’t facebook
Congrats!The butterflies are usually worth it, even if the situation isn’t ideal.
That’s a really good approach because distance inevitably adds stress to a relationship. If something ended on such a positive note, you should make your last impression really good. You don’t want a bitter end. This way, you leave way for something more to happen later on.
Xangalationship!
Awesome!!
Hopefully it will work out! It’s definitely a good sign that she wants to at least try whilst so far away! :)
I’m glad you found someone who makes you happy. I know exactly how you feel; I’m going through a very similar situation myself. I hope it works out! :]
I hope it works out for you and her and that you can get through the long distance relationship stuff. Sounds like you both has a wonderful time.
Awww. Super cute. I’ll be following along to find out how this goes! (:
I hope for the best for you two!
I hope you’ll both find ways to grow the relationship. Best wishes Alex.
Yay! I met my husband on Xanga. I was in NY, he was in VA Beach. Then I had to move to Chicago. We made it work though – we decided it was worth it.
Get out of Nova, Alex. It sucks… :
just take it easy
don’t think about it TOO much”live in your heart, but use your head”:D
This is exciting!! Best wishes to you, my friend. ^^
I’m excited! I’m excited! I’m excited! I’m happy for you Alex!! ^_^ Ugh… we need to talk more lol
I am so glad that she makes you happy!
wheeeeee
so alex, does she know you are gossiping about her right now?!?!
:O!
IT WILL WORK OUT! I know yours would
(Compared to mine, at least.) I’m so happyyyyyyyy for you!
Awwww how cute! Something similar happened to me before.
Good luck! Hope it works out for you. True Xangalationships are hard to come by.
congrats! that’s exciting, hope it works out!
Yay im really happy for you i hope everything works out
Something is bound to happen, given your ability to meet all of us Xangans.
Good for you, I hope you both work it out – whatever it may be.
So happy for you! I hope it all works out. You never know what will happen…even from a distance!
AHA! This is sooo cool, Alex! I’m happy you met someone. P.S. does she have any single guy friends?
Enjoy it for the moment and keep in touch with her.. Maybe …just maybe something will come of it. Happy is …Good!!
Christy
Wouldn’t it be funny/awful if she decided to move out your way and you her’s, and you missed each other and ended up with the same relative distance between you guys? Haha. Best wishes. I’m so glad you have someone that makes you happy. That’s so nice.
Enjoy!
so on a side note.
RY CUMING IS AMAZING! I saw him live and it was awesome. That is all….
Wow! can we find out who this Xangan girl is? And if she’s reading yoru post as of this moment?!
@ItIsAllGravy - That’s pretty awesome to hear. Have you written a blog about how your wife and you became close like that?
@SexyGamerGirl - I love CA. That’s probably why I’ve been there 5 or so times in the past couple years!
@xkthily - Yeah, we’ll see how this LDR goes. How long distance is yours?
@luvs_u - If I come by the SF/SJ area would you like to meet up?
@broknheartshurt - Xanga sure does do wonders!
@babixling - Yeah, Jigg did it. Who knows what will happen here?
@thexCITYxsplit - Wait, you’re in NoVA?? What part?
@TheMarriedFreshman - haha glad my title was eye catching enough for you =) . BTW, I saw your youtube video where you were sustaining that note. Cute.
@whoosh90 - There can never be enough drilling!!
@Made2sing4Jesus - hmm, what do you mean it didn’t stick?
@verified_but_still_denied - haha probably not that much if any
@Daniella_Aalyiah_Li - haha oh far from it
@SuperRat - Indeed, not easy at all. Takes a lot of work. We’ll see how far this goes!
wohooo.. Xangalationship! hell yeah m/
@sonychak - She’s from your neck of the woods. Yeah trust me, I wouldn’t be considering this if I didn’t think she was a good one =)
@grammarboy - I’m not afraid, just aware of how big distance can mess a relationship up. We’ll see how this goes!
@xLove_Me_Alwaysx - 7-8 hours later, are you able to articulate them now?
@SerenaDante - I can officially say that now =)
@fLiPgUy31O - @MZKRANKY_1 - I’m working on it! I have to wait until after I finish grad school next semester.
@crazy2love - I like to think I’m more than cute =P
@Southeast_Beauty - Hey, it happens apparently
@tinatran80 - I am I am
@Keeko1 - @webofsimplicity - I’m okay with her. I let out my piece already on here =) . She has a boyfriend which I respect, so no pursuing here. I actually just told her about this girl today haha. She seemed…surprise.
@Endless21Echos - wow just a few days ago? I hope for good things!
@Roadlesstaken - It does, dear. G’luck to the both of you though. You’re a sweetheart, Alex. I wish you good things.
@Roadlesstaken - Ooh this is long distance as well?! Awww. I can so relate, Alex.
That is adorable
I like it. I hope it works out for the best!
@nepenthium - She’s a February Aquarius. What’s your forecast?
@s_h_a_sha - ah so you noticed! Stalker.
@hollywoodfever91 - you had your chance =P
@oxyGENE_08 - That’s a lot of states away still! Distance is distance.
@Hinase - I think she said I was attractive =P
@mindfulreflections - Nah I agree, CA is too cool for school.
@drung888 - not impossible, but a big hurdle to jump XP. We’ll see!
@xChoux_Pastry_Heartx - I think LDRs that work are the exception not the rule. I guess in time I’ll find out what ours is.
@Ricardo98 - Haha I wonder what would happen if I said I was getting married.
@shuang_zhaohui - indeed, it’s all about the effort!
@rxglasshalffull - exactly what I’m doing now =)
@CaKaLusa - always.
@randaness - What about friendenemies?
@puella_sapiens216 - Yeah, I know for it to work it will take effort from both side. Lets see how it turns out.
@TakingxOverxMe - Guessing you relate to the dilemma?
You deserve it, Alex! I hope everything works out for you.
I know what you mean about wanting to live in California! I visited California twice- once in 1991 and another time in 1997. And the whole time I was there, I kept on feeling, “This is home. This is where I belong.” But I shook off those feelings and said home is where my dad and family are. But now that my dad has passed away, more than ever I’m starting to feel, California will one day be home. Might run into you there sometime, Alex! 
@Roadlesstaken - I’d need the exact date, early or late? she could be on the cusp for pisces
either way, aquarius + pisces is more friendship then anything romantic, I would say. But of course this can just be all BS. Whichever suits your fancy.
Friendemies are the best!
She must be an amazing girl
Distance is definitely tough, and proximity plays a significant role in relationships…
But if you guys jive well together, who knows what will happen? At least you two can enjoy what happened while she was there, and celebrate the connection no matter what happens.
Best wishes!
@christao408 - She saw this before I posted it. She approved =)
@Agent_Eric - thanks. She’s from the Bay Area.
@Momma2babies34 - this is now another reason why I like Xanga =P
@Prim_Prim4488 - what part of the DC/MD area is your family at?
@pistachiocookie - actually funny enough, there IS a FB Like button on top! Next to my title!
@dUhGrL - I’m seriously thinking about finding a job in NorCal after I graduate grad school!
he lives in either alabama or florida lol it depends where he wants to stay and i live in jersey. during the school year, he’s at dartmouth (new hampshire) and i’m in new york. =/
@bluehoursky - our last moments together on this trip definitely was a sweet end to it =)
@Lynn1013 - why am I only now just hearing this term??
@AmeliaHart - that’s a good sign. Would suck if she didn’t haha.
@Toetally_surveysx3 - may it work out for the both of us then!
@grannyinboxers - it was good enough to warrant at least a try at this. We’ll see what happens!
@B2yan_C - haha not sure what I can tell you to expect. I’m just taking this as it goes.
@ElusiveWords - thank goodness for technology! Once she gets a webcam we can at least do that.
@airbornerose - Well I’ll be here until probably May. After that, who knows?
@banZaii_itZ_keIk0o - exactly what I’m gonna do. I’m along for the ride.
@RaquelHiggins005 - yes we do!
@ordinary_gir1 - yup, I sent her this post before I posted it!
@spanishdaisy - haha we’ll see. Don’t know what the future will hold for us!
@Got_Claws - and what happened after?
@onestepcloserto_perfection - indeed. At the very least we can say we tried.
@nepenthium - Feb 2nd. Ruh oh, what do you predict?
@Roadlesstaken - ohh cool! that’s my best friend’s birthday as well :]
still same prediction though. Lol
@jackielovesyou_x3 - @boyhnc - @musicmom60 - @fabolousclown - @edlives - Thanks!
@mycontinuity - She does, but they’re probably all in CA. Kinda far from you right now. Then again, you have plenty of guys there!
@greatredwoman - we’ve been talking every day =)
@akarui_mitsukai - that’s exactly what we thought haha. That would be sad, but funny.
@BkLyNzzzHoTTeStLiLgUrL - The girl showed me that song =) . Good taste huh?
@watermoolen - She doesn’t wanna give away who she is, but she’s definitely read this post. She may or may not have commented =)
@Southeast_Beauty - yup, long distance is such a hurdle.
@takelifeintoyourhandss - thanks, we’ll see!
@DraculVanHelsing - what part of CA do you like the best? I’m leaning towards NorCal.
@sp1r1t_0f_hearts - We did jive well together, so I guess that’s a good thing right? I suppose she’s an amazing girl =)
@xkthily - how did you two meet again?
@nepenthium - Noooooooo!
During the summer through friends. He interned in NYC as a banker. He is my friend’s boyfriend’s bestfriend. lol
@Roadlesstaken - LOL. like you even believe in this stuff.
I’m leaning towards LA.
omg you wish i stalk you!
good luck meanie!
my heart just broke, just a teeny bit…jk. hehe… yay for relationships be it friendship or companionship on xanga or not =)
I’m hoping for nothing but the best for you. & it’s great you’re just letting the road pave itself.
Good for you! Don’t be afraid to spread your wings. Moved to CA about 3 years ago and have been loving it. Enjoy life!
Dude, your layout is sweet.
i hope it works out. that is cool. i know the bittersweet thing is, well, bittersweet. meh. keep us posted. i haven’t read all the replies but i have to ask–who is it?
YAY!!! Good move on the not holding each other back stipulation….
This makes me smile!
Yes, take one day at a time and enjoy each other! I bet she’s beautiful! 
HUGS to both of you!
@Daniella_Aalyiah_Li - no im not.
yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. happy to hear. i hope everything works out or it’s all good somehow.
just go for it. where ever it may take you.
I hope it works out but don’t get too excited. Get to know her first. I once liked a girl from the other coast and she changed her mind.
Awh, this was wonderful to read. So many people are finding love lately.
@Roadlesstaken - Seems like a high wire act to me, Alex. She knows, you know, and now we all know and are watching! Good luck!
aww this is sweet! I hope the best for you two!
this song reminded me of your post. … so i had to recomment lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IOikmjbgy8&feature=related
Honey! I thought I told you not to post about our meetup! *blushes*
long distance relationships are tough.. good luck!
awesome, hope things work out for you.
@Roadlesstaken - Acceptable.
you can figure it out! when it clicks, it clicks!! distance doesn’t matter, you can keep it strong until you can be together again.
Good luck dude
Enjoying the ride is the way to go I reckon 
Long distance for now and see how that goes. Plus, aren’t you glad the iphone 4 has that awesome face time feature? makes phone sex that much more appealing… =P
@Roadlesstaken - Korean-Korean guys don’t count because they won’t date me…shesh. It’s like you don’t even read my blog
aweee this is so cute Alex. Reminds me of Going the Distance (this movie was great btw) :]
I wonder what she’ll be thinking when she sees this post =P
Lol
Good Luckk !
So lucky haha. I wish I could move to California with my xanga crush, hahahaha How cute!
I always go with the line, “so you gonna’ give me the skins or what?” That always works. Trust me.
Just take it one day at a time. Don’t think about the future.
Go Bi!! (Coastal)
is she reading this?
You go bro!
Follow your heart and have fun! We’ll always be here for u
@HeartLUST - I’m only gonna break a break a break break your heart! =)
@mizz_chan - exactly! (did you say road due to my name btw?)
@Kellylivelaughluv - nice, what part of CA you from?
@suggestivetongue - Thanks, airbornerose did a great job making it.
@hilaw - tis a secret! If you wanna see who it is though just look at the picture from the post before this.
@booboo817 - Yeah, if we had more time to establish ourselves perhaps we can change that. Who knows, maybe in the future we will.
Aww! My fiancé and I met online 4 years ago : ] We’ve been together for 3 and just got engaged in September. We were also long distance. It can be hard at times, but it can work : ] Best of luck to the both of you : ]
@adamswomanlost - if you wanna see who it is just look at the top picture of my last post. Can’t say her s/n though! She wants that to stay secret for now.
@eriic - that happened to me too. Fortunately this time around this girl and I have shown that we have feelings for each other and acted on it enough to warrant this try!
@RazielV - how about you?
@christao408 - haha I’ll keep it more quiet in the near future. Just figured I might as well say this big change now.
@jeannie_dot_com - cute song =)
@llamalima - oh my, your looks have changed since you left!
@islandinthesun - they are =(, but I think this one is worth a try at least. We’ll see how it goes!
@crazypassions - I’ve been talking to her everyday since she left! That helps =)
@mystic_sapphire - exactly, just enjoying the moment and not thinking too much about the future.
@Utoppia@datingish - hahahahaha. Well she doesn’t have the iPhone 4, but we’ll be webcamming soon at least once she gets one!
@mycontinuity - Oh I do and I don’t believe it! Korean guys should be throwing themselves at you!
@indiechaos - I heard good things about it. I’ll watch it on DVD when it comes out
@Coffee_Kaioken - I already know. I showed it to her before I posted it =)
@nimbusthedragon - haha well I wasn’t planning on moving to CA for her specifically, but it’s an awesome bonus if it works out that way.
@johnbean333 - noted! =D
@tenshii_rage - that’s the plan!
@CareyGLY - haha nice.
@hotsuma95517344 - mhmmm. She knows all about this. I showed her even before I posted this up.
@tollyyjoy - good to know!
@whoaitsanita - *brofist*
@k4nd1 - awesome! What type of things did you find that worked for your relationship?
oh i see. i don’t know who she is but she’s very purdy.
ok i really got to run those damn errands.
@hilaw - She’ll be happy to hear that. Yeah, she’s not that involved on Xanga and her profile pic isn’t of her, so she’s hard to identify!
@Roadlesstaken - He got me a webcam and we used skype a lot when we couldnt visit each other. We tried to see each other once or twice every 2-3 months (we were both in school). Sometimes we’d both go see a movie with our friends and later on that night we’d call each other and talk about it…just to give us something new to discuss. We we did get to see each other, it made our time together so much better and we really did cherish every minute we got to spend together…as mushy as that seems, it’s true. Hahaha.
“or maybe become enemies” XD
i’m happy for ya! finally some good news while i’m still swamped with the bad..harumph! >.<
ca-li-for-nia girls they’re unforgettable Daisy Dukes bikinis on top…
@Roadlesstaken - great taste. He’s playing at the greek in CA tonight too! Check out his song home and heartbreak.
California is where it’s at!!
that’s really great. i hope it works out for you two!
@Roadlesstaken - Ha! remind me to never borrow your phone then… =P
@BkLyNzzzHoTTeStLiLgUrL - Lucky! Thanks for the suggestions!
@aznspartan94 - yes sir!
@wyrdkismet - What bad is still swamping you?
@k4nd1 - not mushy, I believe it!
@Utoppia@datingish - My phone is innocent! Well…yeah, it should be alright =P
@BkLyNzzzHoTTeStLiLgUrL - Sooooo I totally bought his whole album just now on iTunes. Ended up being just 6 dollars and something, so great deal!
@Roadlesstaken - awesome! Thats cheaper than what I paid lol. I got it for 10. but then again I got my personally signed so it was worth it. I met him and got to talk to him for about 10 minutes or so. He is really sweet and nice. lol.
@Roadlesstaken - oh no, just coicidence that all my friends have been having a bad week this week and the bad i was referring to was just some ppl letting me down. but thanks for asking.
Sweet
hope it works out for you
Take your time.
Either one of you moving to be near each other, will most likely help, but don’t make rash decisions.
Wish I could meet her! Hehe. But hey, I find it interesting when you ask me questions on formspring bc I feel as if they go with some of your real-life situations! She has to be a FANTASTIC catch if you like her! What’s meant to be will be, as you know. How exciting. Love is in the aiiiiiiirrr (singing).
Goodluck & let me know if you need anything. PS I have a card for you!
awww!
sounds so cute <3 I hope things work out for the two of you!
@Roadlesstaken - I was on the train last night, looking at the stops (the little neon billboard in the middle of the train) and a guy under it thought I was looking at him–so he moved to the other side of the train! I feel like a monster.
@Roadlesstaken - didn’t cross my mind but now that you mention it, how appropriate!
do you hear that? that’s the sound of every girl on xanga’s hearts breaking.
@Femme003 - Definitely. No moving on my part until at least after I graduate grad school here!
@HelloKitty0809 - Oooo a card! When do I get it?
@mycontinuity - Haha perhaps he moved for other reasons.
@ch10n9 - Whatev!
Ohhhh yeahhh! Hey, I’m enjoying the ride as third wheel too.
lol j/k … take it slow yo.
awwwwwwwww how cute! yay for somewhat internet dating! XD i wish you the best luck with her!!!!!
hope everything turns out ok 
@Roadlesstaken - What do you mean?
first time reader, really enjoyed the post. and your commercial. thumbs up
Dang man, soooo fast!
good luck alex, we’re rooting for you xD
a whole new level on xanga.. actually.. no… people have met their soulmates on xanga and has gotten engaged. ex: Mr and Mrs. Jiggs.
@Roadlesstaken - Yes, I met him a few days ago, its weird…we talk like we are old friends and stuff, like we have known each other for years. We are meeting in two weeks, in Chicago, fancy that! Well, I will keep you updated, and I will see where this takes me, I am really kinda nervous more than you ever begin to realize but in a good way.
Is this for reaaallll?? I say go for it, stop worrying.
@juiCyer - haha well I am going for it!
@smile4leena - So I’ve heard =)
@secade - haha hey why not?
@chy_so_fly - Thanks, feel free to come back anytime!
@H0Eass - I’m taking it as it comes!
@itsayanav - When we met up we didn’t think something like this was gonna happen. It just did =)
@Roadlesstaken - wait…………….what?XD
WHAT IS THIS?!? NOW WE WILL NEVER BEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
FUUUUUU alex move to california!! we can hang out (finally — sorry i missed it when you were in LA)! also, good luck with your relationship! the long distance thing is a killer :/
@shillykins - You had your chance in CA!
@snapeful - Yes, I miss you. If I move to CA I’ll probably be in NorCal though.
@Roadlesstaken - manassas, har har. i’m about 30 minutes from DC.
congrats on that initial spark–how i envy what you guys have right now :]
@thexCITYxsplit - i used to live in manassas–graduated from op. we’re in fairfax now.
how much longer until you graduate? don’t let a good thing slip away, give it your best even if it is long distance. Good luck! I would like to think if I was able to meet someone very special, I would move across the world to be with her…I hope I could prove those words to be true if I were ever given the chance to
@thexCITYxsplit - oh wow, you’re really close! I’m always surprise to find out when there are other Xangans in the area. Thought there weren’t many!
@Trigger821 - Next May I should be graduating!
@Roadlesstaken - that’s cool, i’ll road trip up a couple times a year then! i’m for sure going to be in norcal for fanime con haha. if you do i wanna be sure to visit you!
we should go on a double date!!
nice
i hope it all works out, wherever it ends up going!
@snapeful - Excellent, that’s a deal! I’m sure I’ll be visiting SoCal often enough as well.
@Roadlesstaken - You should for sure
you’re going going, back back, to cali cali for a california love. lol.
what a perfect time to put biggie and tupac together.good luck mane.
Ooolala, so when will she be revealed?
@shanepay - Yes, good song choice. Katy Perry song is too obvious of a choice, so glad you went old school!
@TheCheshireGrins - If you wanna see a picture of her she’s the girl in the first picture of my previous post.
@Roadlesstaken - it is rather shocking, isn’t it o_o. it’s like oh hey, i could drive by your house on the way to dunkin donuts.
@priscaykim - when i read that, i had a friend from OP over x] &ahh, fairfax is definitely nicer.
@thexCITYxsplit - yeah i like it here, but i do miss the charms of manassas.
do you still go there? op, i mean. i miss a lot of the teachers i had.
@thexCITYxsplit - well, if you ever wanna try to do an impromptu meet up let me know!
i see you getting married on xanga.
@girl_smileyy - That would be fitting
Oh cute! Yay!! =) Hope the time-zone isn’t too much of an issue…Ah, Xanga. :]
@phosphor_stars - I say the distance is more of an issue than the time =P
Been Xanga-less for a week so finally got to see the good news..congrats & I hope all works out well for you! And I do agree..you have the right mentality. The roads of tomorrow are filled with uncertainties, so yes..do enjoy the ride and see where it takes you. =)
@Babieboo_Annie - Yeah where did you go?
@Roadlesstaken - I went home after visiting my family..I am currently without internet at home. But back at my parents’ for a few days so Xanga again briefly! Lol
Aww, how awesome (okay, I admit I’m a little sad
)! I hope that things turn out well and with time you guys can figure out where you’re headed. Anything planned – a card or something for Sweetest Day?
@LADYLILYTHAO - What day is Sweetest Day? Haven’t heard of that one!
Awww..that’s cute. Hope things work out for you!
i know the feeling man open relationships arent the best but if both parties are honest things can work
awwww. i look when these things happen. when xangans start dating or at least liking each other.
ive been in an open relationship for close to four years. its not bad at all. in fact, it takes away all the stress.
hope you two love birds have a happy ending. ^.^ Vm
@hellstar0604 - Ooo, what’s your main reason for keeping it open? Long distance?
well, it’s a bit complicated. we met way too young, and seeing each was kinda bad. then, we got older and starting dating and whatnot…then his parents divorced and he had to move back to japan with his mother for a year. we decided that wed “allow” each other to see whomever we liked at that point, but we were still very close. after the year was up, he came back and it was like just having that freedom of being able to see other people wasn’t something that we’d let go. so, kept “allowing” each other see other people, even though most people that knew us knew that we were an item.
mmm…so, yea, i guess you can say extended effects of a long distance relationship. lol. ^^
Awwwwww! Man, I don’t think I’ve been to your site in FOREVARRRR. The layout’s new. It’s blue. I like it. =D
I wish I had an open relationship right now. That’d be so…..ideal for college. xDEither way, I hope it works out positively in the end – whatever outcome it may be.
@Rhia_Pyrithea - Yeah, what’s been keeping you away from here huh???
@Roadlesstaken - Hey sorry I haven’t been on here in awhile. Sweetest Day is usually the second weekend in October and people tend to treat it as a pseudo-Valentine’s day but I heard that it was actually started because someone gave sweets to orphans. Anyway, how are things going?